Why Some People Will NEVER Change

Why Some People Will NEVER Change

I got a question today,

people don’t change?

One reason, one reason only, they don’t want to,

bad enough. 

It reminds me of a story about a man.

The man walks into his best friend house,

He notice a dog in the corner of the hallway, whimpering.

Why is your dog whimpering? He ask.

Oh, he’s just lying on a nail.

Well, why doesn’t he get up?

Oh, it’s doesn’t hurt him bad enough yet.

We all know someone like the dog.

They aren’t hurting bad enough 

To change.

We try to help them but to be honest,

Sometimes they need to go through that.

They would rather reposition themselves on the nail,

Than get up.

In other words, most people want relief 

not a cure.

And that is why most people 

won’t change.

Relationship

Relationship

Love yourself before you get into a Relationship.

What is the most important thing

to remember in a relationship?

Is it Honesty? Compassion? Trust?

No, It's YOU.

See, You have to figure it out

Who YOU are before entering a relationship.

You have live with yourself for 20, 30, 40 plus years.

All that time you still yet to figure out

How to be Patient, Happy, Alone.

How do you create an environment that another

human being can be happy in?

You can't do it, no matter how hard you try.

You will blaming your partner for

everything that goes wrong.

Instead of realizing that you feeling

of Happiness and Sadness happen to you. Because of You.

Because of how you interpret things, Its all YOU.

You have to love yourself 

before you love someone else.

I don't know about you,

but my relationship never worked out.

When i put too much force energy into 

trying to please the other person.

Being someone i wasn't i lost to who i was.

I was focus on being compatible to the other person.

instead of being the best me that i could be.

The funny thing is.

When two people are working on 

being the best version of themselves.

Cultivating their own happiness and compassion.

That's when the most compatible.

That's when the magical long term relationship happens.

So marry yourself before marrying someone else.

Technology

Technology

Average people spends 4 years 

looking down at their cellphone

It is ironic how these 

touch-screen make us....lose touch.

Technology has made us,

become more selfish and separated.

Social media or Anti Social media?

We sitting at home in front of computer

measuring self-worth by

numbers of followers and likes.

Ignored those who actually love us.

Cuz i asked a friend the other day,

and say "let's meet up face to face."

He said "alright, what time you wanna Skype?"

You can't get a modern day job 

without being able to type, or use a computer.

I imagine a world where we smile

when we are low batteries

Cuz that will mean we are one bar closer to 

Humanity.

You need not delete your social networks 

or destroy your cell phones, 

the message is simple,

 be balanced, be mindful, be present, be here.

Social Media

Social Media

Social media will F*** You Up

if you're not careful.

I know, because I have nearly got depress
by just scrolling down my page,
and compare to people i see.
Oh, they got more followers, more likes.
Oh, they are travelling the world, going beach.
and I'm at home doing nothing.
Seems like they have a better car,
better job, better house than me.

This comparing habit will drive us crazy,
and if want to live a happy peaceful life,
then we must let go the comparing mindset.
Because the comparison are false,
you're comparing yourself to an image.
Because that's their best presentation.
That sweet couple they have a lot of problem
and they ain't showing.
That girl in the magazine,
don't look like the girl in the magazine.
Because it's just special effect and filters going on.

Don't compare your behind the scene to a highlight.
As far as you go be patient to your life,
you don't need to compare people life to yours.
Don't fall into the trap where it change your mood.
Just calmly watch it,
and it slowly dissolve into thin air.